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Anybody can do dinner and a moviebut how about impressing that extraordinary someone in your life with an extraordinary date?  With Valentine’s Day soon approaching, planning a special romantic outingwhether it's an evening or a weekendis a sure way to make you a hero, and New York State provides a breathtaking array of activities that will help you break the ice on a new romance or warm up a lifelong partnership.

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Originally published 01/03/2022

Not a Last Resort

Mohonk Mountain House - Photo Courtesy of Mohonk Mountain House

You don't even have to leave your room (or at least the grounds) of unique resorts including Gurney's Montauk Resort & Seawater Spa on Long Island; the wilderness Adirondack Loj; the Castle Hotel & Spa in Tarrytown; the Inn at Erlowest along Lake George; Belhurst Castle in the Finger Lakes; Singer Castle on one of the Thousand Islands (open May 1 - October 31); the historic Mohonk Mountain House in the Hudson Valley; and the themed rooms of the Roxbury Hotel in the Catskills.

Historic Love

Oheka Castle - Photo by Elliott Kaufman

Take in the romance of historic homes, from Long Island's Gold Coast mansions like Oheka Castle, and the Vanderbilt Mansion & Museum; to Hudson Valley estates like Olana and the Vanderbilt Mansion; to Rochester's Eastman House; to Frank Lloyd Wright's Martin House and Graycliff Estate in and around Buffalo.

Catch a Show

Palace Theater - Photo by NYS ESD

Share an armrest watching some fantastic shows throughout the state. Check out a Broadway show in New York City for a world-class theater experience, or explore the music scene in the Capital Region, including popular and tribute bands at the Palace, Jazz and African music at Proctors, dance performances EMPAC, and classical performances at Troy Savings Bank Music Hall. In the Hudson Valley, listen to some classical music at the Richard Fischer Center for the Performing Arts. Further west, take in top-notch comedy and Broadway shows at Rochester's Auditorium Theater and performance art at Shea's Performing Arts Center in Buffalo.

Get Cultured

DiaBeacon - CHA Installation 2010 - Photo Courtesy of DiaBeacon

Walk hand-in-hand among the masters at art museums including the Whitney Museum of Art in New York City; DIA Beacon and Center for Contemporary Art in the Hudson Valley; the Albany Institute of History & Art; Frederic Remington Art Museum in the Thousand Islands; Fenimore Art Museum (opens April 2) and the Munson in Central New York; and Burchfield Penney Art Center in Greater Niagara.

Fall in Love with a View

Photo by Julienne Schaer - Courtesy of NYC & CO_2
Photo by Julienne Schaer

Have your breath taken away by inspirational views from observation decks like the Empire State Building, SUMMIT One Vanderbilt, and Top of the Rock, or over waterways from the Brooklyn Bridge and the Walkway Over the Hudson. You can also take in stunning vistas of the natural world from inside the aptly named Cloudsplitter Gondola at Whiteface Mountain, or next to the frozen mist of Niagara Falls. Don’t forget to grab a hot chocolate or coffee to keep you and your partner warm as you check out these magnificent views. 

An Underground Date

Howe Caverns - Photo Courtesy of Howe Caverns

Take your relationship underground—15 stories to be exact—into the northeast's largest show cave, Howe Caverns, where the temperature is 52 degrees year round. Lantern tours on weekend evenings inspire additional snuggling. While you’re 156 feet under, put your minds together to break out of “The Cave,” Howe Caverns’ high-tech immersive escape room!

Chilly Thrills

Bobsled Competition, Olympic Sports Complex at Mt. Van Hoevenberg - Photo by NYS ESD

Get your heart pumping and adrenaline flowing at the Greek Peak Outdoor Adventure Center, snowmobiling in the Tug Hill Plateau, or joining a bobsled ride at Mount Van Hoevenberg in Lake Placid.


Dogsled Rides on Mirror Lake - Photo by NYS ESD

Bundle up and take in the scenic snowy countryside on a real dog sled ride on Mirror Lake in Lake Placid. Just steps away, whoosh down onto the lake from a wooden toboggan run (which opens in February, weather dependent).

Catskills Kaleidoscope

Kaleidoscope at Emerson Place - Photo by NYS ESD

Dazzle your partner with a visit inside the world's largest kaleidoscope at Emerson Resort, where you can stay in one of the property's many luxurious rooms, indulge in a spa treatment, or dine at one of its several restaurants. If you're inspired to take home your own kaleidoscope, the gift shop has some that are slightly more portable.

Have Some Class

Corning Museum of Glass - Photo Courtesy The Corning Museum of Glass

Learn something new together, like making your own glasswork at the Corning Museum of Glass, and getting an introduction to ceramics at the Wellsville Creative Arts Center in Western New York. There are plenty of options if you want to learn to cook or bake, including at the New York Wine & Culinary CenterNiagara Falls Culinary Institute, or Culinary Institute of America.

Tropics Close to Home

Joseph L. Popp, Jr Butterfly Conservatory 654

Get tropical close to home at botanical gardens. The temperature is balmy year round in the conservatories of the New York Botanical Gardens, the Brooklyn Botanic Garden, and the Buffalo and Erie County Botanical Gardens, now offering Orchids After Dark through March 2. At some locations, the beauty goes wild, with tropical birds and reptiles at the Joseph L Popp Conservatory in Oneonta (opening in Spring), and the Dancing Wings Butterfly Garden at the Strong Museum in Rochester.

Romance on the Wild Side

Aquarium of Niagara

Get in touch with your animal side at aquariums like the New York Aquarium in Coney Island, and the Long Island Aquarium which is set to host ChocoVino on February 10th, a five-course dinner plus a chocolate and wine tasting all next to aquatic displays. Book a Penguin Encounter at the Aquarium of Niagara, or spend time at the Bronx Zoo and Utica Zoo with critters in outdoor habitats and warm indoor environments.

Best Way to the Heart is Through the Stomach

Ellicottville Brewing Co - Photo by NYS ESD

Have a culinary adventure visiting the farm and eating in the Blue Hill at Stone Barns restaurant (advance reservations required); sampling ice wines on the Niagara Wine Trail or in the Finger Lakes, tasting craft beers at Brewery Ommegang, Ellicottville Brewing Company, and Saranac Brewery.

Love on Ice

Rockefeller Center  - Photo by NYS ESD

Grab your skates and put your love on ice, gliding and twirling at rinks including Rockefeller Center (pictured) and Bryant Park in New York City, Harborfront Park on Long Island, Bear Mountain Ice Rink in the Hudson Valley, Clinton Square Ice Rink in Syracuse, the Empire State Plaza Ice Rink in Albany, and the Olympic Speed Skating Oval in Lake Placid. Canalside in Buffalo has ice bikes for rent and heated geometric igloos that are sure to keep you warm, light up your night and create the perfect photo on Instagram!

Snow-Covered Slopes

Holiday Valley Skiing - Photo by NYS ESD

Cold weather makes for great snuggling after downhill skiing at more than 50 ski resorts—more than any other state. For experts there is the highest vertical drop east of the Rockies at Whiteface, and for beginners many slopes offer inclusive packages with lessons and equipment rental, as well as snowboarding and adventure park thrills too! Don't forget to après-ski!

Winter Walk in the Woods

Snowshoeing- Adirondacks near Saranac Lake - Photo by NYS ESD

Take a walk through a winter wonderland at spots like the Basha Kill Wildlife Management Area and Sam's Point Preserve in the Catskills, Five Rivers Environmental Education Center in Albany, Minna Anthony Common Nature Center in the Thousand Islands, Landis Arboretum in the Capital Region, and Tifft Nature Preserve and Audubon Nature Center and Sanctuary in Chautauqua-Allegheny. Some have snowshoeing available, or even cross-country skiing.

One of the Best Winter Carnivals in the World

Saranac Lake Winter Carnival  - Photo by NYS ESD

Eat, drink, and join the fun at the Saranac Lake Winter Carnival, whose ice castle helped make it National Geographic Traveler's second-best winter carnival in the world. Participate in cross-country skiing, ultimate frisbee, volleyball tournaments, and a spectacular fireworks display. This year’s theme is Halloween-based titled “Creepy Carnival.”

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